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Goodbye Shanghai

So this is it! Today is my last day in Shanghai. Everything is packed, about to go get some dinner with Danny Boy and I’ll be on a flight to Bangkok early tomorrow morning. The last few weeks have been pretty busy and well, pretty blog-less as well I suppose.

I had a great visit with Steph, Mom and Auntie Rabina. I guess my favourite moment had to be at Qipu Lu…a very busy shopping district in Shanghai. After having numerous taxis stolen right from under us (the Shanghainese are ruthless when it comes to queue jumping and you-were-there-first general courtesies), I told the ladies to sharpen their elbows. Before you could blink Auntie Rabina was booking it down the street shoulder-to-shoulder with a small pack of Chinese girls running for an approaching cab. She peeled them off those door handles, waved to us and jumped in – I couldn’t have been prouder! Once in the cab, the driver looked at me with a huge grin on his face, laughing and saying “foreigners! foreigners!” giving the thumbs up and even taking his hands off the wheel for a quick impression of us all running for his cab. We had an excellent visit, filled with lots of shopping, eating, site seeing, massages and maybe a few too many cocktails in the hotel room ;) .

On the 25th I said goodbye to the ladies and took the night train up to Beijing along with Sandra and her friend Melanie to meet up with Jen and Cody. We took the night train (14 hours) and that was pretty fun. We were stared at a lot, got to hear a lot of snoring and have a few wind-tunnel-esque bathroom experiences, but for the price it was a steal of a journey! In all seriousness though it really wasn’t so bad. As dutiful tourists in Beijing we hit the Great Wall, the Forbidden City, the Temple of Heaven, Tiananmen Square, plus the old AND new summer palace – in three days! Phew! We were happy to return to the warmer Shanghai weather and I have since shown them the what I consider the highlights (again, mostly eating, shopping and massages, with a couple of cultural things thrown in for good measure).

Peppered between visitors have been some tearful goodbyes with Simon, Sandra and Christian, not to mention loads of goodbyes to other friends who have slowly trickled out of Shanghai. Even though this is exchange round 2, I still find myself surprised at the intensity friendships can build in these short-term situations. I am missing my three Germans quite a lot and have been subjecting poor Jen and Cody to countless numbers of nostalgic had-to-be-there stories about our adventures in China. I am already obsessing over when I can make it to Germany next…tentative plans: German Karneval post graduation :D.

So tomorrow is Bangkok where Cody, Jen and I will set out on a two month adventure around South East Asia. Tentatively on the list is Thailand (not so tentative :D), Vietnam, Cambodia, and Laos, but we might not make it to all, or maybe even make it further depending on where the wind blows us. I can’t guarantee what’s going to happen with this little blog as I don’t know what kind of Internet access we’ll have along the way or what my laziness levels are going to be, but I would have the desire to keep posting so we’ll see what happens.

For those of you who are particularly dedicated  (or particularly worried in the case of my mama), feel free to check out Cody’s blog at codyinasia.ca…he’s a bit of a better and more regular blogger than me (at least so far!).

Hope you’re all well at home, until next time!!

 

Lan qiu and Xianggang

Last weekend our basketball team played our first games of the season. The Shanghai American School was having a small tournament and after a team dropped out at the last minute we were invited.  As far as I have been able to tell we are the only women’s club team in Shanghai, highlighting the lack of popularity of women’s basketball here..19 million people in this city and one women’s team :) Anyway, that limits us to playing against international high school teams, university teams and apparently the Shanghai farm team for the WCBA (Women’s Chinese Basketball Association) :S.  We played three games last weekend – lost the first on Friday night and won both on Saturday. Yesterday (Saturday) we had another game which we won and an hour from now we have practice. As much as I enjoy my relaxed Shanghai lifestyle of little academic stress and firm time commitments, I have to say that there’s something nice and familiar in having to roll out of bed (and not being happy about it) on a Saturday morning to go run around with a team. It feels so great to play basketball again, I didn’t realize how much I’d been missing it. I don’t care what anybody says, it’s the king of all sports – aerobically, mentally, socially, basketball is just so awesome!

It’s a strange thing being on an all-Chinese team (sitting proudly on your integration high-horse) and then entering these gymnasiums and being warped back to Canadian high school.. all the girls at these schools are 17 and Caucasian, the parents look and act the same as our parents did in the bleachers, everything is happening in English, and the gym looks like you could be at Mt. Doug…but you’re in China, and it’s so weird!

The girls on my team are really great; they are inclusive, friendly and very curious about me and Canadian life. There are a couple of the girls who speak English fluently, but otherwise the communication with the other girls is through basic English, broken Chinese,  non-verbal communication, or (very commonly) with the aid of a trusty translator. They are very interested how basketball is at home (when did I play? How long did I play for? Do I know anyone who plays at university? Have I seen a WMBA game?) and what I think of China (Was it scary to come here? Are people shorter here? Is it a tropical paradise compared to Canada?). After the games last weekend we all went out for Chinese hot pot which was yummy. A big pot of boiling broth is put on a burner in the middle of the table and then you order all kinds of meat, vegetables and even bread that you cook in this soup. I impressed with my chop sticking skills (which are not that impressive, but the fact that I had any at all seemed to be good enough) and ability to eat all mysterious contents of the soup without questioning it.

Since joining the team, my personal feelings of pressure to learn more Chinese have ramped up ten fold. Because so many of my friends are other exchange students, the majority of my life here happens in English and even with Chinese friends I’m almost always speaking English (the conversation would be painfully short if it happened in Chinese :D). But with the team, everything is happening in Chinese, the game plan, the recap, the cheering, the joking around and it just makes you want to be able to participate. That said, I am again reminded how great sports can be linguistically. I don’t know exactly what it is about sports, but I really found the same thing when playing basketball in Sweden. I think it’s just that everything happens in context so it’s easier to fill in blanks of sentences where you only understood a few words…plus, communication is often quite simplistic, you can congratulate, console or encourage a teammate with only a few words .  I’ve started picking up on some of the Chinese basketball lingo. My teammates find it endlessly entertaining to hear me chanting “fang shou! fang shou!” from the bench with them rather than the usual “De – fence!”

Yesterday (Saturday) we had another game which we won and an hour from now we have practice. As much as I enjoy my relaxed Shanghai lifestyle of little academic stress and firm time commitments, I have to say that there’s something nice and familiar in having to roll out of bed on a Saturday morning to go run around with a team.

In other news, I am going to Hong Kong this week! Heading out on Wednesday and returning Saturday with Sandra, Simon and Christian.  We realized when booking our flights that our travel time lines were determined based on our party schedule (have to make it to Hong Kong for ladies night on Wednesday, have to get back to Shanghai for Saturday to see Armin Van Buuren apparently the best DJ in the world) – such busy, busy schedules! Hong Kong, hopefully with a side trip to Macao, should be a few days filled with shopping, eating, visiting a few friends, and maybe some gambling for good measure. Conor informs me that James bond also gambled in Macao, I always knew I had a lot in common with James. Special thanks to my parents for the generous birthday gift, some funds to cover the cost of this particular trip. We’re all agreed that it’s  Hopefully I don’t blow it all at the poker table ;) Just kidding, I’m such a card shark (yet another likeness to Bond) that would never happen.

Until next time!

amy

 

I’ve got a feeling that tonight’s gonna be a good night, that tonight’s gonna be a good, good night

Many thanks to all those who sent birthday greeting by email, skype, facebook (btw, I get the notification in my email but I can’t log into the site to respond in case anyone was wondering), mail and however else!

My birthday in China was really one for the books – a truly memorable 22nd!

Most of the celebrations took place on the 7th, as Saturday is a much more appropriate day for birthday celebrations. In the morning Sandra and I dragged Christian and his visiting brother to the grocery store to stock up for the big night. The chips we could carry ourselves but beer was the main goal. You can buy an obscene amount of beer for 300 Yuan (~$50 CAD) in China, so that’ s exactly what we did!

That night I had dinner with Sandra, Danny Boy, Danny’s friend Ryan, Simon and Joy at the Japanese restaurant around the corner from our place. The party started at 9, but was kicked off a little earlier by a group of Daniel’s most fabulous (in every sense of the word) friends. I guess in the end we were some 20+ people, consisting entirely of Chinese people and Germans..and me, of course. Simon, who spent a year in Canada, helped introduce the classic drinking game of “King’s Cup” to give the party more of a Canadian feel, and despite a bit of confusion over how exactly one “busts a rhyme,” people caught on quickly enough. Perhaps the most entertaining part of the evening was “JJ,” a flamboyant and overly confident friend of Daniel’s who decided to try his luck with every foreign guy in the room even after being told none of them were gay. Christian’s poor little 17-year-old brother looked like a deer in the headlights when JJ made a pass at him.

There was a lot of anticipation for midnight, I think this might be some sort of German thing, but everyone said I couldn’t be wished happy birthday or open presents until midnight or it would be bad luck. So at midnight there was champagne, a countdown and even a small toast made by Sandra; it was like New Years eve, except all about meeee! :P Following that there was presents which included a framed photo collage from our recent travels and adventures, a couple of gag gifts, and a money pot which my closer friends contributed to on the condition that I use the money to fly somewhere (Hong Kong here I come!).

After presents the police showed up and told us to turn off the music and move the party along. We sent everyone out with a can of beer as a parting gift and headed out to the bar for a few hours of dancing. At around 3 or 4 we were enjoying some noodles and considering heading home when we were persuaded to karaoke instead, so we hit the KTV and ended up back home at around 6 :D Good times!

The next day (being my actual birthday) was mostly spent sleeping.  Woke up at 2, cleaned up the apartment, talked to Cody, and then went to basketball practice at 6.

Today life is getting back to “normal.” Had a class presentation this morning and now I’m updating the blog instead of studying for my midterm coming up at the end of the week. Daniel is taking me and Sandra out for dinner as his birthday gift to me and the post office informs me that there’s a package from Canada waiting to be picked up, so apparently I get to stretch my birthday on into the week as well :D

Anyway, thanks again for all the birthday greetings, it’s very nice to be remembered even when I’m so far away!

 

The Yellow Mountains

In an effort to get off the beaten track of urban China and see some scenery before the weather gets cold, Sandra and I ventured off with six friends to Huangshan (the Yellow Mountains) the weekend before last. This time the German-ness was broken up a bit by our Mandarin tutor and friend, Amanda, who is from Shanghai…not only nice to have her company but also good to dilute the group with another non-German speaker (especially one who’s not afraid to demand conversations be switched to English). The other five are friends who study at Tongji University (another university in Shanghai), three of which Sandra knows from Mannheim back home.

The trip started with a 6 hour bus ride on Friday evening. We arrived around 11PM in what at first appeared to be the middle of nowhere, China. It’s so funny because despite being a pretty small town and being the middle of the night, a couple of restaurants and even a small grocery store were open..absolutely nobody was on the street when we rolled off the bus and it was obvious that our hungry tourist selves were a sight for sore eyes for those restaurant owners. That night we stayed in a hotel which Amanda had arranged. We each paid 30 RMB (~$5 CAD), though the posted price for a room was over 600 RMB, so it’s easy to see that it pays to negotiate in China! We ate a big Chinese dinner in the middle of the night before turning in, mysterious and delicious as usual.

The next morning we left at 9 and hit the grocery store for breakfast and lunch supplies. Not big on refrigeration in this part of China (I guess the energy costs are not economical for shop owners), we were limited to strange, dried Chinese mystery goods, Oreo cookies and white bread. So cookies, bread and warm water it was!  I am sad to say that a large portion of our weekend was spent mainly on this diet, especially brutal when you’re trying to make it through hours of mountain climbing each day.

We took a bus to the base point for hikers and began our hike up a million, gazillion, badillion stairs that would soon become our nemesis for the next two days. Stairs, stairs and more stairs, I am serious when I say I wouldn’t have believed before that hike that I was physically capable of climbing so many stairs in such a short period of time. Imagine hours on end of climbing stairs straight up a mountain side, is this anyone else’s version of hell? Now, I was definitely in favour of the cable car option but nooooo we have to climb the mountain! I guess that’s what you get for traveling with a bunch of fit, hike-happy Germans. Stairs aside, the views were pretty breathtaking. Seeing the Yellow Mountains makes you appreciate Chinese paintings – I couldn’t get over how much the landscape resembled a painting (or I guess I should say, how closely Chinese paintings resemble this landscape).

Amanda mentioned that everything is a bit more expensive on the mountain and after about two minutes of climbing it was pretty clear why. All food, drinks, and supplies consumed on the mountain are carried to the top by men. Needless to say, these guys had the most ripped calves you’ve ever seen in your life. A long bamboo pole resting on one shoulder with two packages tied to string and balanced on either end, these men carried everything from toilet paper to vegetables, to flats of water and even gigantic watermelons. So you can only feel so sorry for yourself after you see these guys. Suddenly you’re not feeling so ‘woe is me’ carrying up your one weekend worth of clothes in your backpack with padded hip straps.

Four or five hours of stair climbing later we arrived at the hostel on top of the mountain hungry and covered in sweat. We changed and went back out to explore the nearby views and ate some apples and cucumber from a small stand as the hotel restaurant didn’t open until 5:30.

The hostel we stayed at was pretty hilarious. We slept in the most enormous dorm i have ever seen. There was one room with at least 100 people sleeping in it either in bunks or tents on the floor. We were staying in a “private dorm” of 8 women around the corner from this huge room, but in fact the walls were separated only by corrugated metal with gaps at the top and bottom, so as far as sounds, light and germs go, you were in fact sharing with about maybe 120-140 people.  The best (read:worst) part was the bathrooms..2 bathroom stalls and one sink for women, 3 shower heads for the whole dorm – I am not kidding! But overall Chinese people are much more tolerant of these cramped quarters unlike us privacy and personal space obsessed westerners and nobody seemed to mind much except us.

That night we sprung for the much needed all-you-can-eat buffet and a short stroll around in the fog after dinner. In the evening Amanda informed us that we would be hiking an even more difficult route the next day.  At first this seemed to defy mountain climbing logic, don’t we get to go down the mountain after climbing up it? But nooo, we had to then climb across the mountain range and then take a cable car down. And so we went to bed early and nobody slept as best we could considering our 200+ bunkmates.

Now, the whole point of sleeping at the overpriced, under-washroomed dorm on the top of the mountain is so that you can wake up in the middle of the night and book it up to the nearest peak to see the famous Huangshan sunrise.  So despite not getting much of any sleep we rolled out of our bunks at 4 in the morning to perform our tourist duty. Stumbling around in the cold and dark on wet stairs, none of us had considered that before sunrise it’s dark and we might need a flashlight but we made do well enough with the light from our cell phones. We found a suitable peak and waited for half an hour in the dark on its windy face. Waiting and waiting it seemed to be getting lighter… a bit cloudy, not the best morning for a sunrise, but we kept waiting. Crammed on the peak, a group of now about 15 of us and maybe 30 Chinese people, shoulder to shoulder, everyone stood quietly and waited. Brighter and brighter it became and eventually I was aware we were standing in full daylight and had seen absolutely nothing! But still, everyone just kept standing and staring off at the horizon, just waiting for something to happen when clearly it was over. The sun had risen on the other side of the mountain, and the 40+ of us had dragged ourselves out there in vain. Really just too  hilarious! Right on par with our palace double-dipping in Korea in my opinion! Here we had suffered all this travel hardship for this sunrise and ended up facing the wrong direction.

Cold and feeling silly we retreated back to the hostel for a breakfast of instant noodles, basically you’re only choice on the mountain.  So we started hiking again at around 6 and it was I guess around 11 or 12 by the time we made it to the other side of the range. We took the cable car down the other side of the mountain to save our knees and finally got to see some Huangshan monkeys on the way down!

From the bottom we did an hour or two worth of busing and transferring buses before arriving at Hongcun village, a Chinese village at the base of Huangshan also a UNESCO World Heritage Site as of 2000. One of the locations used in “Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon,” Hongcun has a reputation as being the “village from a Chinese painting.” There were young art students painting and sketching literally around every corner, something I’ve yet to see once anywhere else in China. The village was established in 1131 and is apparently quite well preserved. The Internet tells me that the village was originally built by a feng shui master to resemble a cow..not something you notice just by passing through, but interesting all the same. We wandered around, ate some street food and met some really cute kids who were unusually proficient in English. We got back on the bus and headed back to the city to catch our bus back home. Some crazy mission-impossible style taxi taking, KFC eating, bathroom-going stunts later we made our second bus on time. Exhausted on the bus ride home we mostly slept, though I did manage to meet my first random Canadian in China, a nice guy from  Montreal doing his masters in architecture in Shanghai.

So we survived the Yellow Mountain, and though it wasn’t exactly a relaxing weekend getaway, the good company, scenery, and shenanigans made it more than worth it.

 

Heart and Seoul: Kam Sa Ham Ni Da Korea!

So we arrived back home last night from our 11 day Korean vacation! Korea was fantastic, I think it surpassed all of our expectations as a travel destination. Now, it true that maybe our opinions might be a little bit skewed as we are all people who have just lived our first month and China and it being our first time back into a fully developed country…but still! I think Korea is great in any case.

Sandra and I arrived in Seoul last Wednesday night and spent the better part of our first two days eating, sleeping and shopping. We had a bit of sticker shock as prices in Korea are roughly comparable to Canada (maybe a bit less, but it also depends on what you’re buying) and we are in full-blown cheap travel mode and are used to Chinese prices on top of that. But Korea was great because they actually had clothes that were sometimes long enough and big enough for me and there was even a remote possibility of finding big shoes (or at least not be laughed or scoffed at when requesting size 10).  The one strange thing is that in Korea you’re not allowed to try most clothes on before you purchase them. It seemed to be mostly around concerns about make-up coming off on the clothes..very strange! Hardly any store have fitting rooms and you always see people holding things up to themselves in mirrors and sales assistants pulling the sides tight…. that’s as close as you can get to trying it on! So yeah, it was fun to look, but not a lot was purchased in the end.

Korean food is pretty tasty, similar to Chinese food in many respects, but with noticeable differences. With every meal you order in a restaurant you get cold dishes with it, usually involving something pickled and maybe a few varieties of the oh-so-Korean Kimchi.  One thing I really loved was Korean barbecue where you order raw meat, veggies, and whatever and cook it at your table, so delicious! It was also nice to not have food safety as a constant concern for a few days as I am always on guard waiting for a special E-coli surprise in China.

On Friday night our other friend Christian (also German) arrived and then the sightseeing could officially begin! That night we met up with Leon, an old family friend from Canada who is currently teaching English in Seoul. We started off with some Karaoke, a popular pastime in Korea as it seems to be in many Asian countries. I have to say that we had some memorable renditions of CCR’s “Bad Moon Rising,” Enrique Iglesias’ “Hero,” and an impressive finale of “Twist and Shout.” A little known fact about Leon is that he is one mean karaoke performer and I am being absolutely serious! Very impressive. Karaoke was followed by a bar where we met a few of Leon’s fellow teachers and the shooter specials got a little out of hand. The night ended “early” around 4a.m. as a member of our party (not naming any names…but would like to clear both Leon and myself at this point) was feeling a little rough.

The next morning was mostly spent sleeping, resorting to a breakfast of hotdogs, and not feeling particularly chipper. We did however make it to the main Korean royal palace for a walk around the grounds. Very neat architecture and a beautiful natural space in the middle of Seoul. It was a long weekend for Koreans so the palace grounds were packed with happy picnicking families and small children dressed up in traditional Korean dress. I’ve decided that Asia is definitely home to the most adorable children/babies and elderly people, no contest with any other continent I am sure.

The following day we woke up early and went on a tour of the Demilitarized Zone (DMZ) that acts as a neutral buffer zone around the military demarcation line that separates North and South Korea since the end of the Korean War. The tour involved walking through one of the four tunnels dug by North Korea under the DMZ. The tunnels were discovered by South Korea in the 70s and have since been barricaded off and opened to tourists like me :D After being discovered North Korean officials claimed that the tunnels were for coal mining despite the almost purely granite geology…oh that North Korea. After the tunnel we watched a video with a very happy tone (“the DMZ is full of beautiful and rare wildlife” and “all Koreans look forward to a future of reunification when Korea will be a united and prosperous country,” etc), anyhoo it was pretty glossy considering the complicated history and politics, but a nice thought I guess. Next they took us to an observation platform things where you can look at North Korea from afar…haha yeah, kind of lame.. we could have been looking at some South Korean village for all I could tell from that distance. After that we went to Dorasan railway station which was built in 2003 after North and South Korea made an agreement to be connected by rail for commercial goods transport..I guess the station is supposed to be a symbol of improving relations. Overall the tour did not rock my world and only really manages to just reinforce the mysteriousness surrounding North Korea. It is possible to take guided (read: propaganda) tours of North Korea, but they are very expensive and sadly were not even close to being in our budget range.

The next day was reserved for “Everland” the Disneyland of South Korea. But before we set off for Everland we agreed to see a temple in the morning as Sandra was really keen on seeing a Korean temple before we left. So we got up early, took the metro to the appropriate stop and saw across the street an ornate rooftop, so we headed that way assuming it was the temple. We arrived on the temple grounds and had to pay a small admission fee (seemed a bit strange and rather touristic, but well) and so we wandered around snapping pictures as usual. I was not so impressed as it seemed very similar in style and architecture to things we’d seen already (plus I was like a restless child waiting to go to the theme park). Wander, wander, wander..there are many buildings on the grounds but you can’t actually go inside and there are a few doors opened up with velvet ropes across and nobody in the buildings. “Guys, I know this might be a stupid question, but where is the actual temple..and you know, people practicing Buddhism? Does this seem rather palace-y to you?” Sandra makes up some reassuring response about how people probably don’t practice Buddhism here anymore and now it’s just a historical site, blah blah, the building in the middle is the temple, and so on. Finally Christian intervenes and points out that we are actually visiting the same palace we saw two days ago – and it was! Perfect! haha we felt like the most ridiculous tourist on earth! Christian hadn’t said anything because he thought he must be going crazy as neither Sandra or I had noticed or said anything. We had just gone in a different entrance and seen the grounds from another perspective..we just believed so much that it was a different place that we didn’t even notice we were looking at the exact same buildings!  hahaha too good! Anyway, we were running late and didn’t have time to go to the actual temple so we headed off to the amusement park instead (priorities people!).

Everland was pretty good though there were really long waits for rides considering it was a Monday, I guess many Koreans decided to take the Monday off and extend their holiday weekend. Everland is home to the steepest wooden roller coaster in the world, so that was pretty great, but most of the other rides were pretty standard. Everland further reinforced my image of Koreans being the happiest, smiliest people on the planet.  For instance, when you finish riding the big roller coaster everyone claps for the returning riders, whenever the staff aren’t actively working they are making jazz hands (and they don’t even seem to hate it! It’s like they enjoy making jazz hands for a good 50% of their workday) and even non-thrill rides manage to produce an impressive numbers of joyful screams and squeals. The park is largely geared towards families and even with so many small children running around I never heard a single child scream, have a tantrum or even cry – I just don’t get it!

The next day Sandra and Christian woke up early to go the temple we attempted the day before and I opted to sleep in instead (yes, I know, booo bad traveler). That afternoon we flew to Jeju Island, a volcanic island located off the southern tip of Korea (definitely worth a google). Jeju is known as the “Hawaii of Korea” and is a very popular vacation and honeymoon spot of Koreans.  We stayed in a waterfront hostel which was full of young Koreans and the odd Western hippie tourist who had stumbled upon Jeju island and never managed to make it back home (or move out of the hostel for that matter).

Our first day on Jeju was spent seeing the obligatory but also fantastic tourist attractions. These included Mt. Hallsan (the volcano which formed the island originally), walking through giant tubular caves formed by lava flows, and climbing up a coastal volcanic crater “tuff” thingy called Seongsan… difficult to describe what these tuffs look like, so I will leave that one up to google as well if you’re curious…or wait, this is it..  http://english.triptokorea.com/english/UserFiles/Image/Jeju/Premium%20Pakage/Seongsan%20Ilchulbong%20Peak.jpg . Mt. Hallsan, the caves and Seongsan are all UNESCO world heritage sites.

The next day we rented scooters!!! Ooooh it was so great! We managed to rent them without producing any form of driver’s licenses or even providing a credit card. I guess the scooter business is pretty slow on Jeju in the off-season or maybe the lack of a common language expedited the process. Anyway, we scootered all over that island for two days straight, we scootered and we scootered and we scootered and the novelty never wore off.  Jeju is the perfect place for scooters, not very much traffic, beautiful, winding coastal roads and well, you’re on an island so distances are relatively short. We scooted mostly along the coast, surrounded by palm trees, a coast of black volcanic rock cliffs, bright blue ocean, crashing waves and good weather – Lonely Planet eat your heart out!  We scooted through small towns and then back on the coast, seeing all the Korean ladies drying seaweed on the side of the road, scouring the rocks for shellfish, or selling the famous Jeju mandarins in stalls.  It was really great -  50ccs of raw scooter power, the sweet helmet and goggle combo, and fresh ocean air – life doesn’t get better! During those two days we saw a good number of the 10 natural wonders of Jeju, including many waterfalls and I even managed to go swimming in the ocean! The water was still so warm despite pretty overcast weather and the beach was just so sandy and perfect. Koreans on the beach looked at me like I was a bit crazy as almost any local looks at someone swimming in their ocean in October, but by Canadian standards it was one toasty ocean!

We flew back to Seoul from Jeju on Saturday and spent one more night in a different Seoul hostel. The hostel had just been opened two weeks prior by a lovely Korean man, Min, who taught himself English through travel and has been on some of the coolest trips (one year traveling overland through Vietnam, Laos, Cambodia, Pakistan, India, and China and a road trip through the Western US to visit all the canyons, sleeping in tents and cooking Korean food on gas burners). Anyway, we spent an awesome evening with Min and a young Korean student who works for him (his name escapes me) learning all about Korea and picking up some extra Korean phrases just in time to leave the country.

Overall I was very impressed with Korea. The culture, language and history is strikingly different from our own but yet we found the people to be so welcoming, understanding and curious. We experienced so much kindness as tourists in Korea – bus drivers leaving their routes to take us to the correct stop, numerous “Welcome to Korea”s, free mandarins pressed into our hands by the old women on Jeju, prompt offers to help and give directions whenever we look the slightest bit bewildered, small children practicing their English and peppering us with adorable questions like “what’s your name?” or “how old are you?” We were not a spectacle like we are in China and we caught no flack for not speaking Korean, in fact we got an inappropriate amount of praise for knowing a single phrase.

Visiting Korea shed some light on a lot of the discomforts, communication barriers, and cultural clashes that we experience with more intensity in China..Korea was so easy, clean and friendly, it was hard to not to consider whether we had made the right choice for our exchange country. In the end, we realized that so much of what we loved about Korea was it’s relative similarities to home… so thanks a lot culture shock, you’ve fooled us again, but we found you hiding out in our Korean vacation, giving us a taste of comforts we miss so much.

And we didn’t choose China because it’s comfortable and similar to home, in fact, for most of us it was just the opposite reasoning. So we have to work hard to avoid bitterness when we get shoved on the subway, or yelled at for the 100th time in Chinese, and remember that we are in the throes of culture shock and maybe approaching the point where the disdain for your host country is sometimes greater than the love and all these little annoyances are amplified.

So bring it on China! bring on the miscommunication, dirty squat toilets,  and embarrassing cultural faux pas, I can take it! I still have your dumplings, this awesome city, linguistic breakthroughs, KTV, good friends, and all those lovely people who are interested and welcoming.

That’s it for today, hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving :D Until next time…

 

the pneumothorax

So, I got a call at midnight last night and it’s Simon on the other end, a lovely German friend of mine also on exchange in Shanghai. He tells me that he’s having trouble breathing and he’s quite sure he’s going to pass out any minute, if he stops talking before he makes it to a taxi that I need to call an ambulance. Simon lives alone in a very Chinese neighbourhood, so finding someone who could understand that he needed to go the hospital wasn’t really a realistic possibility. Luckily, Simon made it to a taxi and made it in relatively good time to a private hospital where they speak English…this was largely thanks to some mad googling on our end and the fact that Daniel was home with me at the time and was able to translate the address and directions for the cab driver.

30 minutes later Sandra, Daniel and I arrived at the hospital to meet Simon. It turned out to be a collapsed lung, something Simon had had once before in Germany, but still (as it sounds) a very serious condition. In any case, it was the cleanest, most professional, most impressive hospital I’ve ever been in..all of us could agree on that point.  There was nobody else waiting in the emergency room, Simon saw a very competent and friendly American doctor , had blood work and x-rays right away, and had two English-speaking Chinese nurses tending to him the entire night.

The majority of the last 24 hours have been spent at the hospital.. Simon was moved to a private room which is so much like a hotel room that we’ve decided to take pictures…mood lighting, a fluffy white bathrobe, flat screen TV and DVD player, and even mini toiletries in the bathroom! But of course it all comes at a price..turns out Simon’s bill for his 3 day admittance is 35,000 yuan which is wait for it…..$5,500 Canadian dollars! Can we say ‘hooray’ for travel health insurance?!

Anyway, Simon will be fine, so far his recovery is going perfectly and we are keeping our fingers crossed that he will be released tomorrow. Unfortunately after your lung collapses you’re not allowed to go on planes for awhile (because of pressure changes) which puts a damper on the Korea trip which we’ve already booked flights for..we are now trying to work out plans to take  a ferry instead, so here’s hoping!

Anyway, drama drama in Shanghai!  The moral of the story is to take your travel health insurance seriously. Also, if you live alone in China, you should know your address in case you need to tell a friend where you are because you’re quite certain you’re going to black out (perhaps this last moral is more for Simon than anyone else).

 

If you thought I forgot all about my promised blog, you would be wrong..

Okay, so this first blog post from China has been a long time coming, but I don’t feel toooo bad about it as Cody and Sayuri are the only people who know the URL as of now :P Special thanks to Cody for setting this guy up after I found out the google blog I started was blocked over here.. it looks very pretty, don’t you think?

Okay, so lets see, I guess I’ve been in China just over two weeks now, but it’s hard to believe it’s only been two weeks – so much stuff has happened! I see things everyday I want to tell you guys about, but given my blogging track record so far, I guess only a fraction of those things I see and  experience will make it on here..but I will try my best!

So, first things first, Shanghai is sweet! I can’t even describe how great this city is! ahhh no really, words can’t describe! But lets start from the beginning..

So, I arrived in Shanghai the on a Saturday evening and took a cab (without hassle) to my new apartment where my roommate Sandra was waiting. The apartment is gorgeous and quite possibly the nicest apartment I will ever live in for the rest of my life (it can only be downhill from here I’m sure). Wood flooring throughout, a balcony with a great city view, nice kitchen (which so far, has barely been used :D), spacious bedrooms, modern furnishings and some nice Chinese artwork. The location is prime as well..We live right in the city and only a 10-15 minute walk from the main campus of our university. The area is called Xujiahui (takes awhile before you can say that one properly to the cab driver), which is a nice area for sure but perhaps a bit TOO full of western comforts ..Pizza Hut, McDonald’s, KFC and Starbucks are within walking distance as well as many mega malls.

My roommate Sandra is from Germany and the two of us seem to have quite a few parallels including going on our first exchanges in the same year (she went to Sidney, BC!), are the same age, doing the same academic program at home (more or less) and in Shanghai, have the same travel goals and roughly similar life goals…the list goes on. Anyhoo, it feels like we’ve known each other for months rather than weeks and despite spending oodles of time together (at school, at home, on the metro, out with friends, etc.) we are still getting along great. Sandra and I  have a third roomie, Daniel (aka “Danny Boy,” “Dan the Man,” and “the Danimal”) a most fabulous gay Shanghainese guy. Dan was born and raised in Shanghai, is 19 years old and studies music at Shanghai Normal University. He speaks great English and is a very willing and helpful translator, tour guide and friend to me and Sandra. It’s Dan’s first time living away from home (his parents live in a suburb of Shanghai) and being a much loved and doted on only child, sometimes Dan needs as much help with his big transition as we do – so we are all getting something out of our little international family! So far life with the roomies is great; we often eat together, shop together, go to the bar together and on occasion, shamefully order McDonald’s together (they deliver in Shanghai! AND you can order in English…it’s bad I know, but if you were here…. you’d probably do it too).

So now, back to the start…after two days in Shanghai of running errands and getting settled in, we went to school on the Monday to register. This was an interesting experience..our first exposure to the disorganization and chaos that is the Jiao Tong exchange program. It was a confusing day full of much misinformation and miscommunication (actually quite a typical day for me in China) but as a bonus we met some other students in out program, and they were/are great. Registration involved turning a corner and getting shot in the head with some laser gun, followed by a thermometer in the armpit, followed by spending an hour of registering wearing a surgical mask and facing demands to go to the hospital as I was suspected of having Swine Flu (joy!). Anyway, after some explanations about being from Canada and not being acclimatized to the Shanghai heat (extremely humid 35+ degree weather) I convinced them to take my temperature after a half hour in some air conditioning…turns out I was right, no fever, and more importantly no flu! After registration Sandra and I went home and booked flights to Guilin, a city in southern China,  to take advantage of our newfound week off school (more on Guilin to come).

That night we were invited to KTV (karaoke) with Sandra’s Mandarin tutor, Amanda. We were told we were going with some “business friends” of hers which turned out to be some old Chinese men! We arrived at a very swanky KTV club where we were taken to a room with elaborate fruit plates, all-you-can-drink brandy and the aforementioned old Chinese men. Nobody spoke English aside from Amanda, but even with a translator the evening proved to be very culturally confusing. After a few minutes of translated small talk, about 7 or 8 gorgeous young Chinese girls, who were dressed to the nines, filed into the room in a line. We were then told that these business associates were now going to choose some girls to “have a drink with them.” A few were chosen, a new line came in and another was chosen…maybe 4 girls total. Following this there was lots of glass clinking and drinking, the girls played dice games and chatted with and sometimes massaged the old men – eally feeling like ‘Babe:Pig in the City’ at this point in the evening! We weren’t sure if the girls were prostitutes and Amanda was also unsure what extent of “services” they provided…There’s a special term for this kind of “cocktail waitress” in Chinese that I forget now, but apparently they are not usually prostitutes? That’s according to Daniel anyway. Sandra and I were told if we wanted to be polite we needed to be drinking or singing (secret third option being flirting with old business men with whom we didn’t speak a common language)…singing it was! and so we sang and sang and sang songs that nobody had heard or could understand, but they seemed happy about it anyway. I never imagined that singing sober karaoke in front of strangers would be my least awkward option in a social situation!  We`re still not sure the real reason we were invited to this evening of awkwardness, but at least it provided us with some insight into a side of Chinese business culture..the kind of stuff they absolutely can’t teach you in a text book!

The following day we left for Guilin which is in an are of China famous for its natural beauty and is a very popular vacation spot for Chinese tourists. We stayed in a hostel and spent four days traveling around the surrounding region. We saw gorgeous rice terraces, visited an apparently traditional village of the Yao minority population (more of a tourist trap, but still quite cool actually), took a river cruise on a bamboo boat, visited some pretty rad caves, and poked around historical sites which we didn’t understand the significance of due to a lack of English translation.  Other highlights included Sandra getting pick pocketed (actually more funny than serious as she lost just a bit of money and nothing else..great ammunition for teasing), improving our Chinese language skills while shopping at night markets (“how much is that one”  and “20 yuan?! no, that’s too expensive”  was about as far as we got), and having our first Chinese full body massage (cost was around $8 CAD for the hour…actually it was more painful than pleasurable, but still a total steal!). But of course my personal favourite had to be becoming a tourist attraction in our own right and having our picture taken by excited Chinese tourists as I guess Westerners are considerably rarer in this area of China and Chinese people typically don’t travel very much or too far…they usually try to do it when you’re not looking, but when you catch them they just keep staring and snapping away. I decided that the least awkward and most fun response was to strike a pose which tended to get a favourable reaction.

Returning from Guilin, we trekked back to school where we were met with more disorganization and administrative shenanigans, but those details are not particularly fun or interesting, so we`ll skip that part!  Looks like I will be taking courses in E-commerce, Compensation Management, Cross-Cultural Management and Networks and Internet..unfortunately, there was no feasible opportunity to take Chinese language for credit, so I will be doing private tutoring along with most of the other exchange students. I can’t quite get the required number of academic hours over here, so the UVic BCom program has requested that I write a book report in addition to my coursework..seems to be a rather grade 7ish type assignment, but I am not complaining! I will write more about school in China later when I get further along.

Recent days have been filled with some great partying in the fine Shanghai night clubs, meeting people, and getting my bearings in Shanghai, at school and our neighbourhood. I’m going to the Rotaract Club of Shanghai’s meeting on Monday and hope to find somewhere that I can play basketball over here (women’s basketball is somewhat of a niche sport over here, but in a city of 20 million + people, it’s not impossible to find I guess). On the weekend we went to the a bar on top of the Hyatt hotel on the Bund (river running through Shanghai)..it was the best urban view I think I`ve ever seen in my life! Drinks were running about $12 CAD, but if you hold on to one for an hour and half they don’t kick you out :P Unable to catch a cab, we took a death-defying scooter ride..part of the true Shanghai experience..we even ended up getting ripped off by the driver in the end which is also part of the true Shanghai experience ;) !

On Sunday, Sandra and I went shopping at a couple of the local markets (the good ones full of knock-offs and people yelling at you), followed by a $5 pedicure (which on second thought was not the best choice sanitation-wise, but what’s done is done! I can already see my mother`s cringing face as she reads this). Today we went to school in the morning only to find we had a three hour break..decided to have a brunch of noodles (actually not an uncommon breakfast food here) with a couple of friends…delicious won ton soup for about 80 cents CAD (Steph be jealous!) followed by another one-hour massage..left with just enough time to return to school! Haha life here is just too awesome and hilarious sometimes! Hopefully more to come about my spoiled Shanghai lifestyle  in future posts.

Anyway, I really have to stop now…this has been a blogging marathon, but at least the important bits are in here.  Oh yeah, and I’m going to Korea in a little over a week! We have a week off for Chinese national day! woohoo!

Hope everybody is well at home, please send me a line and let me know how you’re doing!

Much love from Shanghai,

Amy